So we have arrived. It is the first day of school for Michael, and I have done everything right to arrive here calm and collected. Well, for the most part. And when I had little oops moments, (like forgetting one bag of his school supplies at home and having to make a second trip to school to bring them in), I laughed about them. The old me would have been mortified. I think all parents are frazzled at this time of year, particularly us Exceptional Moms and Dads whose Exceptional Children take anxiety for school to a new level. What can we do as parents to make the first day of school easier? Well, I have found out that the following 5 things have helped me survive that first day (and pretty much the next few weeks until he adjusts to the new schedule. ) So, without further ado, here they are:
5 Tips To Survive The First Day of School:
- Start as early as possible buying the school supplies. We get our list at the end of June, beginning of July, but usually end of July to the beginning of August is when the sales start. After four years, I finally do my shopping then instead of running around a week before and wondering where all the supplies are.
- Look through their cupboards and see what they have outgrown. I did it late this year, but usually wait until mid summer to see if he needs new shirts, pants, shoes etc. Again, the early bird gets the worm.
- This should actually have been number 1 for those REALLY anxious kids. Start talking with your child/ren about back to school, and preparing them by reading books about it, writing a social story, looking at pictures and letting them take part in the prep work: I let Michael bring the school supplies in with me this year to see his classroom and teacher and mentally prepare better as he is SUPER nervous about going back to school. He helped me with a “What I Did On My Summer Vacation” photo album choosing the pictures to put in. Remember, most of our kids are visual learners and have photographic memory. What they see repeatedly stays with them, for better or worse.
- Start getting your child/dren used to getting up early and going to bed early at least a week in advance if possible. Make sure as well that you get a good night’s rest. If you are both rested, you will handle things better.
- Remind them about seeing their friends, the positive things they like about school (for mine it is Music Class and Recess) 🙂 and how excited you are to hear about their first day when they come home. I have been saying this for weeks now to build momentum. I think is has helped.
So there you have it Exceptional Moms. I hope you find the list helpful, and remember, if you forget things or aren’t as organized as you’d like to be, don’t worry. Go with the flow, stay calm and laugh about the little mishaps. It’s a great way to start the year off right, and show your Exceptional Children that life may be unpredictable sometimes, but it doesn’t have to spell disaster. Oh, and have a nice bottle of wine ready by the end of the day. Here’s wishing you and your child/dren a great first day back to school! Until next time.